Struggles

Rough patches come and go throughout a marriage. My husband and I have had ours, and with having a new born our stress levels have risen through the roof. Lately all we do is argue and fight. Mainly about the fact that he "works" all day and just I "sit around" with our daughter. It really bothers me that he continues to think that all I do is sit around and be lazy. However, when he gets home from "work"...I put work in quotations, because every time I ask him what he did he states nothing or PT (which has consisted lately of basketball and a 3 mile walk)...he has a difficult time with our daughter, because she does and needs more than just someone holding her. Grumpo loves to be walked around the house and she will get upset if she is just standing still. Today I asked him if he could rub my feet and the response I received was "why? you haven't been on them all day!". It pisses me off when he makes rude comments like that.

I am just fed up. I am fed up with the unappreciative bullshit that I go through all the time. He acts like he is the only one who does anything in our home and that I am some lazy freeloader. I grew up in a home where both spouses were respectful of one another. So being with some one who isn't respectful or caring of the other partner's feelings is very difficult. Marriages usually don't last when that is the case.